My journey into reformed theology began about 7 years ago when I really wanted to know God better. I came across a video on YouTube by Paul Washer called "Do You Truly Know God?" It really struck a chord with me, so I started looking into his beliefs and the teachings of John Calvin, Martin Luther, and other reformers.
As I got more into reformed theology, I started collecting a bunch of books on the subject. I found myself spending a lot of time at Booksale, picking up resources, making a personal library, and learning as much as I could. But as I got deeper into it, I noticed a change in myself. I became proud and pushy, trying to convince others to believe what I believed.
I even started thinking that those who didn't agree with me weren't really saved. I got into debates and tried to change the beliefs of two churches where I was serving. I unintentionally want to those churches I served in.
Actually, I left five churches and went to a reformed church. I realized that my pride was getting out of control, and I needed to change. So, I decided to go to seminary to learn more and grow in humility. I wanted to embrace the different beliefs within Christianity and treat others with humility and grace.
As Christians, our unity comes from our shared faith in Jesus Christ. The Apostle Paul wrote, "There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all" (Ephesians 4:4-6).
Our unity isn't about having the same beliefs on every issue, but about our common identity in Christ. In embracing the diversity of Christian beliefs, we should work to keep the unity of the Spirit in peace (Ephesians 4:3).
This means that even though we might have different views on non-essential matters, we're called to love, respect, and encourage one another as we all seek to understand God's Word and live out our faith in a way that honors the gospel.
I also encourage churches to share their doctrinal positions and beliefs with their congregation and embrace healthy dialogues. It's important for everyone to understand what their church stands for and believes.